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Learning Zoom – One Meeting at a Time

by Deb C January 31, 2021

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Thanks to COVID19, like a great part of the population, I am learning Zoom, one meeting at a time.

Most of my Zooming is just one click at a time during a meeting.  Slowly easing into learning the program.

My first Zoom call, a few years ago, was aborted.  My siblings and I were trying to use it to discuss our Mother’s health situation.  We failed to connect so ended up with a conference call using another program.

My husband and I belong to a couple of non-profits that were forced to meet remotely due to the pandemic.  My husband also had to work from home for a while. Those circumstances were the beginning of my baptism into Zoom.

Zooming Life-Long Learning Classes

I also signed up for “Life-Long Learning” classes that transitioned to remote learning.  That was a new experience for me.  I knew about the classes, but previously hadn’t the time to take them. The lectures are a partnership between Framingham State University and the Framingham Public Library.  Often the lecturers are affiliated with the University.

I signed on with my desktop computer, which has speakers, but no camera or microphone.  Fine with me.  My office isn’t particularly “photogenic” and I mostly didn’t mind being a bit incognito.  Once in a while it was frustrating when no one noticed my comments in the chat area.  But, in the scheme of things, it didn’t make a difference.

First Class : ‘Honorable Escape Fiction’: The Regency Romance Novels of Georgette Heyer”

The first class was taught by a retired college professor that I knew slightly in a different context.  Somehow, I had never taken a class from her during my college days.  I was surprised at how much I enjoyed her class, which was about one of my favorite historical romance authors.  She drew people out to answer questions, in spite of the less personal way of interacting on Zoom.

I had a great time reliving my enjoyment of the books she covered, as she reviewed the humor, the historical background, and the plot twists. She also provided background on Georgette Heyer herself. In the meantime, I was tidying my office, and scanning photos from my vintage photo collection.  That was a task I had been meaning to get to for a long time.  It was great to listen along while I worked.

The dynamics of the class was interesting, too.  The professor has been teaching through the Life-Long Learning Program for several years.  It was evident that she had a fan club, or groupies in the class.  At first I felt left out, but then, because they couldn’t see or hear me, and only my first name was displayed, I just lurked and listened.  It was obvious, too, that some people, like everywhere, have to let their opinions be known. But the professor was able to move things along and prompt in a way to let everyone speak who wished to.

By the way, if you like the new Netflix series, Bridgerton, and you haven’t discovered Georgette Heyer’s books, give them a try.  Heyer was the writer who started the Regency romance genre.  Her novels are notable for their attention to period detail as well as their wit and humor.

Second Class: “Votes for Women: The Story of the Woman Suffrage Movement”

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Great Seal of Wyoming. The Equal Rights Banner refers to women getting to vote in 1869.

The second class I listened in on relied on a lot of slides so I had to pay more closer attention.  It was another great class and on the history of how women in the U.S. got to vote.  One part of the professor’s presentation that I related to was that women first were able to vote in Colorado and Wyoming.  My husband and I had traveled there the year before and learned about the local history.  When we visited the house museum of the famed “Unsinkable” Molly Brown, we learned that she had donated money and her support to the local suffragette movement.  Also that Buffalo Bill Cody who was from there, spoke in favor of giving women the vote.

Virtual Learning with AARP

As I got used to using Zoom and looking online for enrichment, I started using more online resources that I had ignored. The AARP Virtual Community Center has all kinds of free online events and classes for learning, self-improvement, and fun.  I’ve enjoyed the One Day University Lecture series.  Some online programs are featuring museum exhibits that I would otherwise not have been aware of, or been able to visit.  So, thanks to Zoom I’ve found and become more comfortable with virtual learning and entertainment.

Non-Profit Meetings – Learning Zoom

As I mentioned, I belong to some non-profits.  Thanks to Zoom, I attend their Board meetings virtually. Each meeting I learn a little more about how Zoom works, muting, adding a background, tilting my laptop for a better visual if I want to be seen, adjusting the lighting and volume, etc.  In some ways, thanks to Zoom, I have gotten a better sense of some members that I didn’t know very well.  Some of this is because when we met “in the flesh”  the conference room tables were set up with a lot of distance between us.  I couldn’t see people who were on my right or left very well.  Now I can see everyone and we are more relaxed in our home environments.

One of the non-profits used Zoom to hold a book discussion.  That worked out fairly well for a first time endeavor.  Having a format set up ahead of time was good, but for some, it was hard to break into the conversation.  One of the moderators did ask for input from those who hadn’t spoken yet, before the discussion wrapped up.  Perhaps setting it up so that everyone takes a turn, and then a general discussion is opened may be the way to go.  We are finding our way.  Next up we are discussing a documentary.

Virtual Beer Tasting

 

Keeping Up with Craft Beers journal

If you have been reading my blog, you know that my husband and I like craft beer and visiting breweries.  Our craft brewery adventures have really been stifled by the Pandemic restrictions. When I had the opportunity to participate in a virtual beer tasting, that was another opportunity to learn more about the features of Zoom.

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The organizer had the above Octoberfest beer garden background.  I hadn’t realized that you can upload a photo that shows up as a backdrop behind you.  Unfortunately, I discovered that my laptop doesn’t support that Zoom feature.

Presenting on Zoom  – Learning by Doing

A year and a half ago I volunteered to join a committee to start a new monthly program series, Coffee and Conversations, for my alumni association, the Independent Association of Framingham State Alumni. The concept is to have a guest speaker, an alum, give a short presentation about a topic related to their career with perhaps any correlations to our alma mater. Following the presentation there’s time for casual discussion.  Until the Pandemic, the presentations were held in the living room of our Alumni House, with coffee, tea, and cookies served.

To get the ball rolling, I also volunteered to be a speaker, as did the Association’s president.  I also am flexible and said put me in the schedule as you need me.  My mistake.  While the first couple of events went well, mine was scheduled in December and was cancelled due to the weather.  Then, due to the Pandemic I was cancelled again and the series put on hiatus.

The head of the committee decided to revive the series, but by necessity it would be via Zoom.  She reached out to me and the other previously scheduled presenters to ask if they would be willing to present on Zoom.  Some declined.  While I was, and am, still pretty much a novice on Zoom, I wanted to do my presentation and move on.  I was assured that I would get some help with Zoom.

Then I realized that the cozy presentation that I had planned for the in-person event wasn’t going to work so well on Zoom.  Also the presentation was going to be recorded.  That made me feel I had to up my game. I wasn’t going to just sit and talk into the laptop for 20-odd minutes. Luckily another presenter gave her talk a month and a half before me.  I noticed that she was using slides and was off camera.  She had an advantage because she had given a related talk before. Not only in person to the group, but as part of a Framingham History Center program.  Therefore, she already had a formal script to use.

One Step at a Time

So, learning Zoom meant learning how to add slides to the screen and not be on the screen myself.  Then I had to find out how to prepare the slides and then post them to the screen.  As far as the slides, Powerpoint or Google Slides was the answer.  Next I had to decide what I was going to put on the slides.  Then I had to scan or photograph the items that were going on the slides. After that create a Powerpoint document and plug everything in and organize them.  Certainly learning by doing.

As for my talk, that was a whole other animal to tame.  I pulled out my notes and made a fresh outline and then fleshed it out.  The trouble was, I was talking about my experiences from 20 years ago.  I helped a local politician, Massachusetts St. Rep. Barbara Gray, now deceased, write her memoir.  I offered to talk about her because she was an extraordinary person with a legacy that deserves preservation.  So many talented women’s achievements are lost and her impact on Massachusetts and beyond is considerable.  To boil down what she did and why we should care into a cohesive Zoom presentation took some thought.

Luckily I had saved some campaign ephemera to use in the slides.  One had a good photo of her.  Poking around in a stash of Framingham town memorabilia that I collect I found a campaign lawn sign.  I also had some photos of her when she was working on saving an historic building on the Framingham State campus.  That was a great tie-in.

A Woman's Ways and Means by Barbara Gray

I added a scanned in picture of the cover of the book, A Woman’s Ways and Means:  Making It Happen…24 Wild Years in the Massachusetts House.  I still have several copies of the book and sell it online.  I tried but wasn’t able to interest a publisher in the book. Back then the concept of Print-On-Demand books was in its infancy so we went with a local printer who had printed books for the Framingham History Center.

So I Googled up how many words would be needed for a 20 minute talk.  Depending upon how fast you talk, it’s from 2000 to 3200.  That helped me with the length.  I formatted the talk in Bold and larger size font and double spaced.  I noted the slides in larger red type as cues for me to move to each slide.  Then I read it through aloud, and made changes to make the flow better and more organized.

I ended up buying a headset with a microphone for my laptop.  My voice is on the soft side and there’s nothing worse that someone saying “Can’t hear you,” when you are in the middle of a making a point.

The Association’s Executive Director gave me some tips about the slides and screen sharing. I signed into Zoom and pretended that I was in a meeting. I hit record and did some partial run-throughs and played them back until I felt comfortable enough with everything.

As I couldn’t put a background on the laptop, I opted to hang the campaign lawn sign behind me.  That was another challenge.  I ended up using binder clips to attach it to a curtain covering the deck door behind me.  Luckily the clips were strong enough so that the sign didn’t fall in the middle of my spiel.  The sign is black, red, and white so I chose a red top and black jacket.  Somewhere I read that solid colors are recommended on Zoom.  After my preparations, I was comfortable enough to have a good night’s sleep.

Well, we had the highest “attendance” yet for a “Conversation.”  Many of those participating knew Barbara, or knew of her.  And I knew most of them. There were several great sharing moments.  Some were surprised at all of the bills and laws that she had generated and some about how the Ecumenical Center was saved. Her former aide added some great comments. All went pretty smoothly considering my lack of experience.  The response made me glad I had persevered.  Everyone signed off except for the Committee Chair and the Executive Director.  Then the boom fell.  Someone forgot to start the recording from the beginning, so only part of my talk was preserved.  The introduction and many comments by the participants were lost.  They asked me if I would re-record with the thought that maybe the two recordings could be stitched together.  The Executive Director has video editing experience.

I signed off and had a cup of tea and did a few exercises to work off the tension and disappointment.  I really wanted to punch a pillow or something.  I had been so happy that I was done.  Well, I signed back into Zoom, created a meeting, and after one false start, I tried to speak and posture as if people were listening and was fine with the result.

BIG LESSON LEARNED: If recording of a Zoom meeting is important to you, be sure to ask a backup person to record it, or record it yourself. Put a note in big red letters in front of you as a reminder. It never occurred to me to hit record.  I don’t think I will forget this. Ever.

So that’s how I’ve been learning Zoom – one meeting at a time.

Please share your comments and experiences with Zoom.

Note:  I will share my presentation about Mass. St. Rep. Barbara Gray in another post.

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12 Ways to Socialize while Social Distancing

by Deb C June 29, 2020

Missing interacting with friends and family? Here are 12 ways to socialize outdoors while social distancing.

Being outdoors and interacting with loved ones and special friends are important for your physical and mental health. These 12 ways to socialize outdoors while social distancing are intended to help you do both while reducing the risk of possible infection by maintaining social distancing.

Please note that these suggestions are for those who have been careful about isolating themselves and not knowingly exposed themselves to COVID-19. Masks are still a recommended component, unless drinking and eating. Using any of these ideas doesn’t guarantee safety. Only you can decide what you feel comfortable with doing.

1. Levels

Be on different levels when interacting. Keep your distance but close enough to carry on a conversation by being on different levels. Porch, deck, balcony, open window, even treehouse.

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2. Each to Their Own Space

Designate and separate using screenhouses, umbrellas, or canopies, etc. Each party to their own and stay within its perimeter.

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This deck and the patio sets can allow for distancing while close enough for conversation.

3. See-Through Door

Stay on either side of a glass or screen door. If screen, stay back at least three feet. If a glass door, perhaps open window nearby to hear better.

4. Low or Slatted Fencing

Make use of low or slatted fencing. Each person or group to have benches, chairs and tables on each side of the fence.

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5. Parking Lot

Make use of an empty or sparsely used parking lot. Park so that there is a parking space in between the two cars.

6. Make Use of an Athletic Field

You may be able to make use of a public athletic field with a running track. Keep your distance by walking in the inner/outer lanes or perimeters.

7. Badminton or other yard games requiring spacing

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Games like badminton include exercise when you socialize outdoors while social distancing. The net will provide a natural barrier for one on one badminton in the backyard. Wear gloves or wash and disinfect hands, rackets, and birdies before and after.

You can find fun ideas for outdoor games online.

8. Outdoor Yoga

Some yoga instructors have taken to providing outdoor Yoga classes in public parks. Again, this provides healthy activity when you socialize outdoors while social distancing.

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9. Drive-In Movies

Drive-In movies are making a comeback. You may meet up with separate cars next to each other. Even without meeting friends and family, being outside with others sharing an experience is uplifting in these times.

10. Drive-In Church

If your place of worship offers it, go if you feel comfortable. Arrange to park near family and friends.

11. Go Fish.

Go fishing. Travel separately to the fishing spot. Space yourself close enough for casual conversation.

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12. Coordinated Neighborhood Activity

Some neighborhoods have organized a regularly scheduled activity that engages neighbors while they keep their distance. Some have daily Pledge of Allegiance to the US flag with a patriotic song. Some have the musicians or singers entertain. Some have someone leading dancing, exercises, or Yoga while people are in their yards or on a quiet street.

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For other tips and thoughts about making the most of having to stay at home, see these blog posts: 30+ Ideas for Having Outside Fun at Home: Staying Home Doesn’t Mean Staying In and The Plusses of Being Stuck at Home.

For more ideas about making staying home more productive and satisfying, see this ebook: Hacking Being Homebound.

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What are some ways that you socialize while social distancing? Please share your tips in the comments area. Thanks!

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Not stuck at home, but safe at home

by Deb C June 4, 2020

I just noticed a sign in a window that said: “You’re not stuck at home, you’re safe at home.”

Perhaps that is something that Mr. Rogers would say, if he were still with us. He had such a gentle way to turning things into plusses. And explaining and defusing scary and unpleasant things.

Safe at home for me means health and comfort.

Counting my blessings.

Before the onset of the Coronavirus, sometimes when I woke up, I would be thankful that I didn’t wake up in say, Syria, or Afghanistan, or in an immigrant camp.

Now I think of many more things that make me safe to be thankful for:

A husband who cherishes me and makes me laugh.

A helpful and loving son and daughter-in-law only a mile away.

Another helpful and loving son and daughter-in-law only a phone call away.

Family on both sides that is caring and connected.

My health.

Clean, running water.

A solid house in a pleasant neighborhood.

Good neighbors.

Good and great friends near and far.

Reliable cars. And a truck. And a convertible for fun car.

And a driveway and garage big enough for all.

A dishwasher. Until we put an addition on the house with a new kitchen seven years ago, everything was handwashed.

Reliable Internet.

Reliable phone.

Cell phones.

TV’s, computers, and Kindles.

A private back deck to relax on.

A yard big enough for a dog, garden, and swing set should we choose to have them.

Regular mail and package services.

A whole house fan. (Often better than a air conditioner.)

Ceiling fans.

Air conditioners.

Plenty of clothing for all seasons.

Plenty of books.

A washer and dryer.

Tools for making and fixing things.

Supplies.

Nearby stores and services.

Living in a time when we understand disease and how to take precautions.

Experience and resilience gained from national and world tragedies and outbreaks of serious diseases.

Enough of a financial cushion to buy what we need.

We don’t have everything, but we want for nothing that counts.

Plus, with our decades of shared experiences, we still find love, humor and contentment with each other.

We are home. We are safe. I am grateful.

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30+ Ideas for Having Outside Fun at Home: Staying Home Doesn’t Have to Mean Staying In

by Deb C May 14, 2020

Staying home due to the COVID19 crisis, doesn’t necessarily mean staying in. Here are 30+ ideas for having outside fun at home. Baby Boomers can enjoy the assets of home and neighborhood even though socializing is restricted. There are also many things to do while outside to enhance your lifestyle and home ambiance.

The Italians have shown the way, by making use of their balconies to share music and song. No balcony or yard? What about your front steps or porch? Some people have taken to having daily dance or music hours in their empty neighborhood streets.

Ideas for front porch or front yard activities

Family on front steps

Arrange for family photographs on the porch by a social distancing photographer.

Gather Teddy Bears on porches and in windows for bear hunts.

Rearrange or get new porch furniture and decorations. Change out the cushions for a new look. Cricut.com has lots of ideas for crafts and re-decorating if you are a Do-It-Yourselfer.

Maybe take everything off the porch and wash everything down and wash and clean the porch itself. Consider painting the floor or ceiling a cheery color. Add some hanging plants.

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Add outside speakers to enjoy music when outside.

Is it time for a new mailbox? How about painting or decorating it?

mailbox

Or designing and making a new one? Some people have whimsical ones like open-mouthed bass or like these:

  • Mailbox on Bike

How about building and installing a Little Free Library? Some are using these as neighborhood swapping centers or food and supply pantries to help those staying at home.

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Play traditional games like hopscotch or tic tac toe. Tic tac toe can be done with sticks and colored rocks or blocks instead of chalk. How about marbles and jacks? If bending over or sitting on hard surfaces is difficult, try a tabletop version using a box cut down to a low clearance to contain the marbles or jack ball. A large plastic bin cover is another idea.

Draw happy messages in colored chalk on your walkway.

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Create and put out signs on your porch or front yard with positive messages and greetings.

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Browse online for fun as well as functional mailboxes, as well as creative and personalized outdoor cushion designs. You can also find special occasion as well as permanent lawn signs and decorations online.

Ideas for your entire yard:

Since you have to be staying at home, why not try some creative landscaping or new plantings?

How about a fairy garden?

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Add or replace a bird house or bird feeder. Get to know the birds and their calls.

How about something like this birdhouse:

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Take photos of flowers and track the progression as they bud and progress to blooming. Print and frame the best ones.

Add lights on your porch, deck, outdoor sitting area or along your fence timed to come on at dusk.

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Make your own lawn games, like corn hole. Get some Giant Jenga or Dominoes or Chess for “giantsize” fun.

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Is it time to install a new deck or patio?

Check your patio furniture for wear and dirt. Replace cushions as needed.

No room for a garden? What about a container garden? Or hanging garden? You can even grow your own potatoes or other vegetables in cloth bag . If you don’t want to go to a store,  check online for containers, cloth, plastic, metal, and wood for container gardening. You can find handmade, functional and decorative garden containers and accessories too.

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Is it time to take down the swing set? Maybe replace a fire pit or other items. Putting an ad on Nextdoor.com or Craigslist may find a buyer, or someone who will take it away for free.

Did you know you can find or sell all kinds of yard and garden items online? There’s a market for used swing sets and vintage lawn chairs.

Raise chickens for eggs if permitted and you have some yard space. You make your own coops with plans found online. You can sell surplus eggs on a table in front of your home on the honor system. Sources for chicken coop plans, eggs and supplies for raising them are again online.

Getting out while staying safe

Explore your neighborhood on foot or bike.

Volunteer at a food pantry or where needed in your community. A call-in center, for example, where there can be social distancing.

Have a daily or weekly simultaneous activity with neighbors, everyone staying on their own front yard or porch, or keeping a safe distance.

Suggestions:

Porch or yard concerts, either by the same person, alternating, or simultaneously.

Or outdoor exercise classes like those led by astronaut Sunita Williams, 54, in her Houston neighborhood?

Neighborhood Pledge of Allegiance or singing “God Bless America” or “America the Beautiful” in the morning.

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Dance lessons, or theme dance nights.

Lawn, house, or porch decorating contest.

For more ideas about making staying home more productive and satisfying, see this post and this ebook: Hacking Being Homebound.

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What ideas have your come up with?

I discovered that once I started writing this article, I thought of, or read of, many ideas that hadn’t occurred to me before. It made me look around my yard and start thinking about what fun things we can do and improvements we can make. I now have lots of ideas to keep us busy. I hope that you feel the same way.

Have more suggestions? Please leave them in the comments below. Thanks!

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The Plusses of Being Stuck at Home

by Deb C April 16, 2020

Silver-lining Plusses of Being Stuck at Home

Stuck at home due to the Coronavirus pandemic or other factors?

If you are stuck at home, why not look for the silver lining and make the most of it?

Here’s some guidelines that I follow that help me stay active, refreshed, motivated, and freed from my aging to-do lists:

Keep to a regular schedule

While you can stay up late and sleep in, a regular schedule makes for a healthy body and mindset.  I stick to my regular weekday and weekend day sleep habits.  The Plus:  I feel better and get more done than when I change up my hours.

Regular (and increased) Exercise

Every weekday morning I exercise for at least 30 minutes, often 45, to an exercise video.  I started pulling out several that I rarely or never used and use a different one every day or so for variety.  Those I don’t care for, I put in a donate pile.  The Plus:  I am purging things as well as exercising.

As my husband is now working from home, we now often take walks during the time he would have been commuting.  We challenge each other to pick different places to walk.  We also now walk to the post office (about a mile away) and pharmacy (about half a mile) as needed.  The Plus:  Healthy exercise, fresh walking paths, and together time with my spouse.

Couple with sneakers stretching

We also cleared off the exercise machines gathering dust in the cellar.  My husband repaired an elliptical, which I use for a few minutes here and there when I go down cellar to do laundry. Next is the treadmill, which my husband prefers to use. If we can’t get the treadmill to work, then we can purge it, too, freeing up space.  Several plusses of being stuck at home:  Actually using exercise equipment we own, and purging those items that need to go, freeing up space.

Reaching Out & Reviving Connections

Extended Family:  My mother passed away some months ago.  Since then I realized that I have lost a connection to my past and the source of family information.  This makes those few family members remaining more precious.  Instead of just thinking I should call Aunt M, or Cousin F, I am doing so.

Friends:  There are personal and work friends that now cross my mind as I wonder who might be affected by this crisis.  I’ve started to call, email, text, or Facebook them to check in.

Immediate Family:  We cancelled plans for a family gathering and isolated ourselves from our children.  However, the phone calls, texts, and now Snapchats are frequent and have drawn us closer.  I miss puppy-sitting for my son and daughter-in-law, but enjoy the pet’s antics virtually.

LinkedIn Connections and Facebook:  I’ve started refreshing and adding to LinkedIn and Facebook connections. I’ve been  educated and enriched by their posts.

The Plusses of being stuck at home:  More personal and professional enrichment.

Virtual Enrichment

Libraries:  Public libraries, already offering many online resources, have beefed up their virtual offerings.  Some are offering story hours with their Children’s Librarian reading stories, and lists of resources accessed online. For example, the Framingham Public Library offers advice for seniors, as well as community and COVID-19 information.

Museums:  Since we can’t go to the museums, the museums are bringing some of their treasures to us, online.  Here are 12 museums that offer visual tours.

Traveling:  Since we can’t go places, national parks,  travel magazines and cruise lines are providing virtual travel experiences.  You can even stream the Northern Lights. 

Colleges and Universities:  Several are providing some free online classes or programs.

Theater, Dance, Music:  Performances of Shakespeare and other playwrights, dance, opera, and music are being made available on You Tube.

Learn a new skill or craft or brush up on one:  Bob Ross programs are now online and tool and craft stores and companies like Cricut have online instructions and project videos. 

The Plusses of being stuck at home now:  All kinds of enrichment formally not available to us online and for free.

Clearing files

I don’t know about you, but I have several file drawers and cabinets that I haven’t touched in years.  There are some articles I’ve written and photos I’ve taken that from time to time, I wish I could put my hands on.  I’ve started to go through some files looking for one item, and I found others that I had lost track of.

cluttered file drawer

If you have been living in the same place for a while, you have probably accumulated papers that you no longer need.  If you don’t start to purge, it could be overwhelming, or just aggravating if you move, or if loved ones have to do the clearing.  After cleaning out the house my mother lived in for 57 years, and then her assisted living unit, I vowed to do better by my children.  How many sheets of those free mailing labels does anyone need?  

Here’s some examples of things to go through and organize or purge from your files:

Appliance and Automobile Manuals:  Sort through and recycle those you no longer need.  If you have some older ones, you might check eBay or Craig’s List and such as there is a market for them.  I discovered that there was a market for the old Ariens snowblower manual I unearthed.  The Plusses:  Not only free up your file cabinet, but perhaps make a little money and make someone who needs a manual happy.

Insurance Policies:  How far back do you really want to save?

Bank and checkbooks and statements:  Have you closed the accounts?  How far back do you want or need to save?

Tax Returns:  Check with your accountant, but if you don’t feel comfortable disposing of very old ones, why not get them out of a file cabinet and into Banker’s Boxes?

Automobile records:  Pull any for those you no longer own.  My mother had folders for all her cars.  The buyer of her final car was intrigued and happy to have a thick folder for all the receipts for oil changes, repairs, alignments, etc.  We were happy to pass it on.  Not so happy to have to deal with folders for her previous cars.  The same went for all the manuals she had for items long gone.

Overall plusses:  You may end up needing less files and file cabinets.  You may be able to find documents quicker.  And, if you need to move, you won’t be weighed down by having to quickly sort through hundreds or thousands of papers. Or, heaven forbid, move or store them.

Attacking those “when I have some time” or “when I get around to it” tasks:

Couple in cluttered garage

We all have them.  Take a few minutes and write down what may come to mind, then walk around your house, garage, and yard for ideas.  Below are some suggestions.  Some big plusses of being stuck at home:  Save money, make something safe or usable again, can cross off “Honey-Do” list.

Leaks:  Do you have something that leaks?  Maybe you tape or tolerate it.  Leaks are a good thing to make a priority.

Something broken that’s fixable:  A chair leg, for example.  We have a dining room chair that needs gluing and tightening.  It’s needed repair for quite some time.  It’s been moved to a prominent place and bumped up on the project list.

Review Finances:  Check credit rating, balance checkbook, freeze credit, consolidate loans, refinance, etc.  Cancel subscriptions or memberships you aren’t using or have lost interest in.

Clean and perform maintenance:  on your car, lawn mower, snowblower, etc.

Emergency Preparedness:  Create a “Go-Kit,” create a family emergency plan, have a basic amount of water and non-perishable food on-hand, plus lanterns, batteries, etc.

Family History:  Start a family journal or continue it. Write information on the back of photos.  Research your family tree, and/or write down what you know about it.

Electronics:  Back up your computer files, sort and organize your cables, recycle old unused monitors, keyboards, etc. There are buyers on sites like eBay for used electronics. Staples accepts your unwanted electronics.

Selling online or starting an online store:  If you have things you’re purging that are too good to throw away, try eBay or Craig’s list, Nextdoor, or Facebook.  For handmade items and vintage collectibles, Etsy is the place to find appreciative buyers. 

Start a Blog:  There’s free and paid advice here.

Stopping at local places:  You know those places you go by and are “always meaning to stop and visit?”  Well, sit down and make a list you can refer to when you are out and about again. When not having to stay at home, just about every weekend, my husband and I pick a place to explore by car and by foot.  We are going to print out a map of Massachusetts and mark off every town that we go to.  I also use this blog to keep a record of some of the places, like the Norman Rockwell Museum, where we have been.

Old family photos and album

Organizing family photos: Sort through your Digital and print photos and place in albums or set aside to give to family members who might want them. Make notations with the photos identifying those in them. (Future generations will thank you for it.) Scan or use negatives to make prints for framing, photobooks, mugs, or other personalized keepsakes.

Professional Image and Career Advancement:

Resume and online profile

If you want to return to the workforce or kick up a notch in your position and salary, here’s some suggestions of things to work on:

Resume and Cover Letter:  When’s the last time you updated your resume?  And are you using a format that will enhance your chances of being memorable?  There are lots of new spins on resumes.   You can find some done-for-you formats online that you can easily edit.  You can also find help with your resume and with interview coaching online.

LinkedIn:  Refresh your profile and photo.  Reach out to your connections.  Post interesting items reflecting your professional background and eye on the pulse of your industry.

Professional Image:  Go through your closet and a) pick out interview outfits and b) purge outdated and tired looking business attire, and c) mix and match items to pre-plan outfits so you don’t have to rush to dress and always present a pulled together look.  Also consider replacing your wallet or handbag if worn looking.  Polish or replace your shoes.

Learn or brush up on a skill:  Now’s the time to take advantage of all the online courses and workshops.  Whether you want to, or feel you need to know more about programs like InDesign or Excel or using Google apps, dig in.

Plusses:  You will be ahead of the curve when the positions open up that you want, and your closet will be less cluttered and more organized.

A Few More Plusses of being stuck at home:

  • You can ease up a bit on the treadmill of life.
  • You can enjoy spending more time with your family.  (Ever notice how many people exit a career or position to “spend more time with their family.”)
  • You can use your commuting time for more enjoyable or productive activities.
  • You can read those books and watch those shows and movies you haven’t had time for.
  • You can work on creative and artistic projects with less interruption.
  • You could adopt a pet that you have been yearning for.
  • You can plan a trip to a place that you’ve always wanted to go to, but never make the time to figure out how to make it happen.   Lonely Planet has lots of resources.       

In general, you can take stock of where you are in life and where you want to go, and start drawing up steps and plans.

For more ideas about making staying home more productive and satisfying, see this ebook: Hacking Being Homebound.

Hacking Being Homebound ebook cover

For ideas for outside activities while staying at home, see this blog post: Staying Home Doesn’t Have to Mean Staying In.

What’s your plus or silver lining to being stuck at home?  What have you found to delight you, motivate you, and keep you active and healthy?
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